The Magic of Conscious Kink (Melbourne, April 2016)

The Magic of Conscious Kink

The Magic of Conscious Kink – with Seani Love

Are you curious about kink? Ready to explore a wider spectrum of erotic expression but not really sure where to start? Would you love to deepen trust, connection, communication and erotic creativity & polarity in your intimate relationships?

Whether you are a curious beginner or an experienced player, international award-winning professional kinkster Seani Love from London’s ‘School of Erotic Mysteries’ invites you to join him. Take a journey through the depths and delights, magic and wonder, expansion and exploration, perhaps even pleasure and pain… using the breathtakingly wonderful approach we call ‘Conscious Kink’.

Conscious Kink helps us expand our understanding of our bodies, our subconscious patterns, our sexualities and thus ourselves. With a strong emphasis on boundaries and consent, Conscious Kink gives us a diverse set of tools that allow us to expand our sexuality, be more confident with our lovers and play partners, and become more empowered as self-aware erotic beings.

During this training you will learn about:

• The use of ritual and intention to create safe spaces
• Boundary setting, consent and safety techniques
• Deepening connection through Tantric techniques and conscious touch
• Giving and receiving pain and pleasure with intentional BDSM skills
• Service, sovereignty and surrender
• Eroticising the authentic dynamics of domination and submission (D/s)
• Giving, receiving and holding power
* Darker options such as consensual non-consent
* Erotic archetypes and ritual

With an emphasis on:
• Putting all these things together for the purpose of journeying, exploring erotic sensations and/or deepening understanding.

The weekend will be paced gently and will include:
• A discussion on shadows, fantasies, the origin of the kinksters’ impulse.
• Discussions on why people would want to explore their erotic shadows and do things like inflict pain or have pain inflicted upon them.
• An ecstatic rite where we use all the BDSM and conscious kink techniques developed so far to facilitate deep and wonderful journeys for each other.


Currently being arranged.
It will be somewhere in Melbourne inner suburbs.
Possibly Brunswick


Friday April 8th [7-10.00]: Meet Seani Love: Shadow Practitioner

Come one and come all! A fun and fascinating intro to Seani’s work. Check it out if you are new to all this. Also a great social evening for those already familiar with this field. (10-10.30 will also be available for informal hang-out and Q&A time with Seani.)
Intimacy Level: Low. Suitable for the curious and reserved as well as the bold and experienced. The content can be edgy (it’s Conscious Kink after all!) but this evening isn’t about pushing edges.


Sat April 9th [10-7.00]: The Foundations of Conscious Kink

The first day of the journey is about gaining a good basic understanding of the practical foundational skills. We will also explore the expansive, transformational potential of shadow sharings. A mixture of experiential, and rich practical teachings and discussions about the nature and value of this path of self-discovery.

Intimacy Level: Whilst erotic energy may well be part of your experiences, nonetheless this day is focused on practically exploring exercises, experiences and techniques for fun and learning. (Suitable for the somewhat adventurous newcomer and more experienced folk wanting to deepen their practice.)


Sun April 10th [10:30-6:30pm]:
The Deeper Mysteries of the Erotic Shadows

A facilitated archetypal, magical exploration into more of the erotic-esoteric. How to hold and explore these realms as a deep personal journey. Using the tools of Tantra, Conscious Kink/BDSM, and Shadow Archetypes, this day is about creating safe and conscious ritual (intentional/clearly framed) spaces to look within, explore what we find there, integrate this and emerge more whole and empowered. Supporting each other through communication, witnessing, debriefing, and finding and honoring of boundaries. Key teachings and sharings will frame a largely experiential day.

Intimacy Level: Opportunities to explore the erotic self are opened up some more, yet this is a facilitated workshop, not a play party. (No direct sexual contact. plus this is a sexual health conscious environment.) Later in the day some participants may choose to be partially undressed or to dress more ritualistically. Clothing options that evoke an aspect of your shadow or erotic journey are encouraged, as is use of your imagination.


** PRICE **

Friday evening: $30 (Earlybird/Concession: $22)
Fri/Sat Combo $150 (Earlybird: $125)
Full Weekend $290 (Earlybird $250)
[All Earlybird prices available until end March only. Don’t miss out on this fantastic bargain to train at an international level!

Tickets available now at

**Workshops fee’s are non-refundable unless the workshop is cancelled or somebody becomes available to take your space, but a credit note will be issued in the event of unavoidable cancellation up to 2 weeks before the workshop begins**

There are a maximum of 20 places available on the weekend itself, but the more the merrier for the Friday night.

We are able to offer one or two concessionary places for this workshop. If you are having trouble financing but are super-keen, please get in contact so we can talk options.



The location is still being confirmed, but likely Pulse Studio in Brunswick

Teas/coffee & snacks will be provided.

Please wear loose clothing and bring a water bottle.

Open to individuals and couples of all genders, sexualities and body types. No partner is required and everyone will have the opportunity to work with different people in order to enjoy a greater range of experiences. If you would like to come with a partner, you are completely welcome to work together for the whole workshop.

This training is held in a safe, conscious and loving space. No removal of clothes is necessary but others may choose to do so and in some instances become very erotic with each other. All activities are optional. We do not match genders in this workshop and all genders are equally welcome. There is no direct genital contact at this workshop.

*For more information, please contact Arven on



Seani Love is a professional Kinkster, Shadow Explorer and Shamanic BDSM practitioner who has twenty years of experience in diverse magical traditions and erotic practices. In 2015 he won the award of Sex Worker of the Year at the Sexual Freedom Awards in London.

He is trained in counselling and since 2006 has been working on combining ritual journeys with BDSM as a powerful pathway to healing and self-discovery. As an international workshop facilitator, Seani has supported many people on their journey to places of increased power, personal and sexual expression, wisdom and love.

He is one of the founders of the School of Erotic Mysteries, a new organisation based in London offering up workshops on all things erotic and magical.

Assistants for the weekend events are Arven Alexander and Rosie Heart, both Urban Tantra graduates with many specialist skills in the arts of the erotic shadow.


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