The Big Question: Asking for what you want


It’s funny how some people seem to get everything they want and some don’t. This can appear to be some great mystery to the uninitiated but it’s not all about luck! Have you tried asking yourself what it is you actually want? Directing this Big Question inwards can be a powerful learning experience. Once you establish what it is you really want, the next step is asking other people to help you fulfil your desires. Does that sound challenging?

In this one day workshop Claire Black and Seani Love will help you to identify what it is you really want, particularly in sexual situations. They will help give you the tools to ask, negotiate and fulfil your own desires, and the desires of those seeking something from you. Communication in the realm of sexual relations is generally racked with shame, guilt and assumption – but it needn’t be! Let Claire Black and Seani Love shine a light on on these big questions so that you might gain better communication tools in the realm of sexual dynamics, learn what it is you really want – and learn how to get it.

The communication tools we will be sharing are applied in this sex-positive workshop but these skills can ripple throughout your whole life.

If you know what you want and know how to authentically ask for it, there’s a much higher chance you are going to get it! But you won’t get it every time. Sometimes you will get a “no” to your request, and that’s fine too. We’re also going to look at how to handle declines in a conscious, authentic way.

This workshop is open to people of all genders and all relationship configurations. No nudity is required but some people may opt to disrobe. Boundaries are established, respected and nurtured at all times.

Ticket prices are as follows

£60 early bird – until 7th July

£80 full price – after 7th July

Some limited concessions are available upon request. If you would like a concesionary ticket please contact either Claire or Seani and let us know about your financial situation. is at

20 tickets on sale now at EventBrite

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