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I’ll be bringing 2 Shadow Tantra workshops to New York this month! I’m running an Introduction to Shadow Tantra on February 26th, and a deeper weekend workshop on February 29th – March 1. I hope to see some of you there! More information here:

I'm coming to New York!

I’ve just been interviewed by Julie from The CoCreative Summit in Vancouver. Have a watch and hopefully we’ll see some of you there ❣   A Solstice Special: Going into the inner darkness! Let’s demystify Kink and BDSM today with this man. A Solstice Special: Going into the inner darkness! […]

New interview!

  I’m currently involved in filming part of a series about sex workers for Channel 5! Lots of interviews with me about women who pay for sex and why. Stay tuned for more information! Seani xx

Filming for Channel 5

Did you see that I was recently in lots of media around the world? Check out this article about my work on Ladbible! LadBible certainly is a fun outlet but they got their source from the Daily Mail who seemed to distort what I had to say. They asked how […]


I played a small role in the film TOUCH ME NOT which will be screened at the BFI London Film Festival – tickets go on sale on the 13th here. The film is about relationships, intimacy and sexuality. If you manage to get a ticket, be sure to tell me […]

Touch Me Not

I was delighted to be interviewed by The Times for their special on male sex workers His place or yours? The rise of the male sexpert They’re highly professional. They charge thousands for their services. And their field of expertise is women and sex. Charlotte Edwardes finds out exactly what […]

Media: I’m in the Times Weekend Magazine

I am in the fortunate place to be able to run lots of workshops of an erotic nature in many wonderful places around the world. The first thing I cover in any erotic style workshop is the topic of consent and boundaries. As well as being important skills in a workshop setting, these are also essential life skills that sadly, most of us haven't had a chance to learn.

Boundaries and Consent

I was recently interviewed by the delighted Mariah Freya for her wonderful Orgasmic Discourses Podcast. We spoke about the power and beauty of exploring Conscious BDSM including: How did I tap into sacred sexuality, conscious kink and BDSM? What is the difference between conscious and unconscious BDSM? BDSM has had […]

Conscious BDSM – Why Your Dark Fantasies are the Last ...

Sex Worker Of The Year – acceptance speech. In case you missed it, earlier this week I won the award of Sex Worker of the Year  – I was nominated by industry professionals and I’m totally freakin’ thrilled and honoured to have won. Here’s my acceptance speech which I tried […]

Sex Worker of the Year – Acceptance speech

I’m absolutely delighted to have won the title of Sex Worker of the Year at the 2015 Sexual Freedom Awards. It’s an honour I don’t hold lightly and I know full well that there are many other well deserving sexuality professionals out there who could just as easily have won. […]

Sex Worker of the Year 2015

A very uplifting testimonial by Helen from Ireland after she attended my workshop last weekend 🙂 “I attended Seani’s workshop ‘Gems in the darkness’ at the Bliss 2014 festival in Ireland. The title of the workshop was very apt, well in my experience it was, but I suspect for others […]

Gems In The Darkness – Workshop Testimonial

A very sweet new testimonial has come in from a recent client. Happy memories of a profound awakening: I stepped through the delicious doorway that Seani held open for me – ever the gentleman of debauchery  🙂 – and now I would not, could not, go back to the place […]

Gentleman of Debauchery

There are many spiritual paradigms (belief systems) in this beautiful world of ours, most of which contradict each other in one way or another. These differences become more apparent when we explore the realms of spirituality and the mysteries. In the world of Tantra, especially a more Westernised Tantra, one […]

Tantra Beyond Gender

An invitation for the Berlin crew: As I’m freshly arrived back in Berlin and these are strange times, I’m taking about 40% off my regular prices for the month of April. One-on-one session: €300 for 3 hours (instead of my usual €520) Boyfriend experience Conscious kink // explore your kinks […]

Berlin Sessions April 2021

The School of Erotic Mysteries is proud to announce our next online course: Level Up Pro The School of Erotic Mysteries is committed to excellence in the field of sexuality and is offering this course for current practitioners who also wish to achieve excellence.  This intensive course will be based […]

Level Up Pro

The Getting Conscious With Kink course I’ve been working on with some amazing colleagues of mine is now online 🙂 Learn about: Consent and Boundaries Impact Play including Spanking Holding Space Domination and Submission Consensual Non Consent Archetypes, Healing, Ritual Learn how to dominate your partner so much more Join […]

Getting Conscious With Kink now online

One thing is certain – the world needs more capable, ethical and conscientious male erotic practitioners who are skilled in the arts of working with women. Increasing numbers of women are becoming empowered enough to explore their sexuality and wanting to understand themselves outside of the context of conventional relationships. I am […]

How To Become A Male Sex Worker For Women

Beginner’s Intro to Conscious Kink – (couples version) – March 3rd, 2019, all day Tickets on sale now! * Are you curious about Conscious Kink and BDSM? * Are you ready to expand your understanding of erotic expression? * Would you love to deepen trust, connection, communication, and erotic creativity […]

Beginner’s Intro to Conscious Kink – (couples version)

  Beginner’s Intro to Conscious Kink – (heterosexual version) – March 2nd, 2019, all day Tickets on sale now! * Are you curious about Conscious Kink and BDSM? * Are you ready to expand your understanding of erotic expression? * Would you love to deepen trust, connection, communication, and erotic […]

Beginner’s Intro to Conscious Kink – (hetero version)

5 January 2019 at 09:00 – 11 January 2019 at 12:00 UTC+11 pin Stoddart Rd, Ladys Pass VIC 3523, Australia Hosted by The School of Erotic Mysteries   NeoTantra, Conscious Kink and the human Shadow Do you wish to know more about the mysterious power of your own sexuality? Have […]

Erotic Mysteries Deep Dive Melbourne